Q : Dear UNIQ Madam

I am a young professional who is deeply in love with a loving and honest woman. I got trapped in lust with her cousin and even though nothing physical happened, I know the way I was feeling was wrong. With time I got over the lust with the cousin but I feel guilty and I think I should tell my girlfriend that I once had lustful thoughts of her cousin. What should I do?

A : Somethings were meant to be left unsaid, telling your girlfriend might affect your relationship with her. Seek help and deal with your covetousness feelings towards a cousin. Appreciate and make sure you rekindle your relationship with your woman, working on increasing your intimacy tactics and sex. Talk about how often you want to make love and how you want it. That way you will be occupied and not have time to look sideways.